The dance floor at Club M
Photo courtesy of Club M

The 10th Commandment is covered in greater detail in Exodus 20:17: "You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's."

That's cool. Within the 10 Commandments of Drinking we would never covet an ox or a donkey—though maybe a Moscow mule. And we don't want anything to do with our neighbor's wife. If we were going to covet our neighbor's ex-wife, though, which we're still not super keen on, we'd head up to North County. Cougar country.

Cougars—sexually driven divorcees in their 40s and 50s—are drawn to moneyed establishments. As are manthers, the male equivalent. Big bills fly in and out of hands at the Turf Club at the Del Mar racetrack (2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd.). Opening Day is July 15. Men are required to wear button-up shirts and a jacket at this top floor bar, and at first glance you'd think décolletage for women was also in the rules (unwritten, maybe). Want to order a Del Martini at the crowded Turf Club bar? Be sure and wave a $100 bill.

There's a spot in tony Ranch Santa Fe where a young, single gent might discover that the ladies of a certain age do the coveting—Mille Fleurs (6009 Paseo Delicias). He just wants to sit at the piano bar and sip on his French Kiss (Grey Goose vodka, St. Germaine, Créme de Frambois and a float of champagne). But beware the circling cougs.

Del Mar is definitely the coveting capital for cougars. The 10th Commandment gets kicked to the curb nightly after the second round and a few dances at Jimmy O's (225 15th St.) and inside Club M at the Fairmont Grand Del Mar (520 Grand Del Mar Way).


See all events on Friday, Dec 2